Dawn wrote,
It's one of my New Year's resolutions to be better at housework and that means decluttering. I am not the problem but my husband has papers scattered through out the house of his drawings that he draws or articles. I don't know how many times I pick them up into a neat pile and the next day everything is scattered all over! He does the same thing with clothes! It's like telling a child to not throw their clothing on the floor cuz it's still clean! LOL Goodness! ;-) I still love him though.. ;-)
Dawn, I just want to encourage you in your quest for tidiness. :)
When Joshua and I were first married, he would (daily) throw his dirty clothes on the bedroom floor. When I went to tidy up the room, I had to pick up the clothes (and turn all his socks right-side-out before laundering them!) and put them in the basket. I really resented what to me was just plain thoughtlessness and laziness!
Then I read in a book (can't remember what one) that I needed to just forget about it. So every day when I picked up the clothes, I put them in the basket and told myself that I was forgetting I ever did it! The day moved along, and I stopped feeling resentful about it. It took me just a few seconds to pick up the clothes. I wasn't going to let that little bit of time ruin my whole day or turn into a complaint!
At some point, I decided to put a laundry basket right beside where the clothes always seemed to land. Then they started landing in the laundry basket. Yay!
One time, I re-arranged our bedroom, and I moved the basket. The next day, the clothes ended up on the floor, right where the basket used to be! After a few days of that, I moved the basket back. 
I tend to be a perfectionist, and Joshua tends to not even notice the smaller details, like inside-out socks or an over-flowing trash can. When I maintain a cheerful attitude and practice a little "forgetting", we complement each other just perfectly!
And sometimes, eventually, one or both of us changes... and the annoying habits disappear. For the record, Joshua now turns his socks right-side-out and puts them in the laundry basket. He says that I nicely asked him to and he had no idea that they shouldn't be left inside-out. Joshua also says that "disappearing" baskets make it harder to comply. 
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