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When healthy eating gets out of control

A few days ago, I came across this article from ABC News about a newly classified eating disorder called "orthorexia".

Orthorexia, they say, is when someone has an uncommon fear of consuming anything "unhealthy" -- to the extent that it overwhelms their lives and they feel they can't eat so many things due to health risks that eventually there isn't much of anything left TO eat... and they become very unhealthy, both mentally and physically.

I didn't really care for the tone of the article. The reporter seemed to be poking fun at those who desired to eat healthy foods and he showed obvious disdain for their choices, even suggesting that someone on a raw food diet is "dumb".

The main examples in the article are obviously extreme cases of "healthy eating" that is definitely not bringing health to the person.

But I think the problem lies not in eating healthy foods or in consuming only raw foods, but rather in letting healthy eating get out of control and consume a person's life.

I'd love some feedback on this topic! I know many of you seek to eat as nutritiously as possible. :) How do you maintain a good balance? What is a good balance for you? Has the desire to eat healthfully ever caused conflict in your life or gone too far?

For me, I think our nutrition is a balance of keeping within our budget constraints and making foods that my husband likes.

We budget enough money towards food so that we are able to afford high-quality and nutritious foods... although long-time readers will know that I try to do that as affordably as possible. ;) For me, that just means buying 50# bags of grain, or growing our own tomatoes, or eating whatever is generously given to us from others' gardens. :) And the "other" stuff, well, I just shop at Aldi's. :) So... it's a balance, like I said. :)

As far as cooking to please my husband, again, this is a balancing act and we're worked through lots of things to arrive at foods that are healthy but still absolutely delicious!

One example is our homemade bread. Joshua never wanted me to pack sandwiches made from homemade bread unless the bread had been made that same day and was still soft. So for a long time, we bought bread at Aldi's.

Then Joshua oh-so-skillfully and oh-so-scientifically altered our bread recipe to include some natural dough conditioners, making the homemade loaves turn out beautiful and soft... and stay that way for a week or longer! (Not that bread ever lasts that long around here... Wink)

So, while it didn't happen overnight, eventually we did arrive at a healthy, homemade, and even frugal conclusion that we both love! Of course, I'm not soaking my grains. And bread certainly isn't raw... ;)

Comments

Tough subject!

And one that has many opinions, I am sure.
I personally, for our family have decided that it is better to eat rather than not eat and to eat as healthy as food as we can on the income God has provided for us. We do eat things that are not healthy for us sometimes. But I was thinking today about how Elijah ate the food the ravens brought him and how gross that was, and how he did not get sick, at least that was mentioned and God had provided it to him. God sometimes has dropped food in my lap that we do not normally eat, but we pray and receive it with thanksgiving and I think that makes a difference.

As for some of the diets that are out there, I have had friends who did some of the healthy eating things with all raw foods etc. I know three people personally who were actually dying slowly of starvation, where their body was not working correctly on those type of diets. From what I have read, they are great for a short term of detoxing and getting cleaned out, but not long term.

I think there are foods that are in the bible which Jesus ate and other people that are healthy for us. I try to eat as many whole foods as we can.
There are alot of foods mentioned in the bible which many health food people say are not healthy for you. Two I can think of right off are milk and honey....God blessed the children of Isreal with milk and honey and yes, it was not just goats milk, but cows and sheep too they drank. Both of those are touted as being bad for you by many people. I agree that the processing kills some of the good though!
anyhow, too long of comment!

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Martha, thanks for sharing.

Martha, thanks for sharing. You brought up some good points that I didn't really get into -- our Scriptural basis for eating. :) I agree that a raw diet might be good for a time -- but long term, the Bible definitely gives license to eat certain kinds of meats along with milk and honey like you mentioned. :)

I was just talking with Joshua this afternoon about the concerns associated with consuming beef -- the hormones, antibiotics, and the resources (since it takes something like 9 pounds of grain to produce 1 pound of beef!). While I do think that those are all concerns to varying degrees, those things don't make vegetarianism the "right or "only" or more "Biblical" way to go. Grass-fed beef actually is good for the environment. :) How much meat we consume might be a different story... we can get so accustomed to being able to just buy anything at any time!!

I do think that vegetarianism and even veganism can supply all of the body's necessary nutrients. However, it takes a little bit of nutrition knowledge and a willingness to combine proteins, etc. to find that healthy balance.

The scary thing (to me) is that I have talked to two people personally who told me they were vegetarians and when I started talking about "complete proteins" they didn't have A CLUE about amino acids and where to get the nutrients they needed (they had never even heard of the term "complete protein").

They thought they could just "skip the meat" and live on vegetables, fruits, breads, and whatever else they felt like eating (these people were NOT into healthy foods otherwise, so white bread would be typical)... that might work for now, but there can be long-term effects.

Well...

I'm not vegetarian but we do eat many vegetarian meals. And to be honest I had to look up what "complete proteins" actually meant. And then thought, "Oh, that's what it is? Easy." It seems like it would be hard to avoid getting complete proteins in since it seems like most standard veggie fare has that covered.

I didn't check out the

I didn't check out the article, but I assume that it was related to the 20/20 program John Stossel did a few weeks ago. Those people that were following that diet were very extreme.

I have known some vegans when I lived in VT and they looked like the had this orthopraxia condition. I think they make a god out of food and we should be careful not to do that. Christian can make gods out of any old thing, as well. Even food.

I also agree that if you are going to be vegetarian, you need to be very educated by reliable sources. 95% of vegetarians that I know look like death or are over weight. (?)

I like to feed my family healthy meals, but I don't let it run my life. Every Christian needs to find that balance and it will look different for everyone. Some Christians may be set up to have gardens or afford organic produce and others may not.

-Zan

"orthorexia" NOT

"orthorexia" NOT "orthoprexia"!!!! :-)

Ugh.

I think that food isn't the problem, it's losing sight of the reason we eat healthy and elevating its import above all else. Although, it sounds from the article that it is talking about an anxiety disorder that manifests itself through food. Fear is rarely a good reason to do anything. I seek to eat healthy because I believe I'm obeying God by doing so. Of course, we don't do a lot of things that we could be doing (or so says sally fallon) but I have to balance that with my time, our budget, and my husband's desires. I feel like I do a pretty good job of it. :)

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http://lilirishlass.blogspot.com

Oh, something else...

I was at a Shonda Parker conference recently and she said something that really hit me. She said "It is not what we are putting into our bodies that is so bad for us, but that we are not taking in enough of what is good. Some bad will not kill you, if you have enough of the good stuff!"

Too much of a good thing

I think some of the problems with eating happens when a person decides to follow someone else's plan and or book. There are many different eating plans out there - and it seems that they tend to stress one thing over another...whether it's vegetarian eating or raw eating or eat as much fat as you can get eating...or no carb eating etc. etc.

Everyone deems themselves an expert when they have tried something and it worked for THEM.

The Bible does state that all things are acceptable to eat - but also talks about gluttony and moderation.

I think people are better off when they research diet and nutrition themselves and decide what is best for their family and then try it. Don't assume b/c someone has written a book and has the approval of A doctor - that that is the best plan for you. Common sense needs to override anything you read.

You hear "I began an all-natural foods diet and it took away my headaches" or "I began eating full fat meals and lost 20 lbs". May be true...or might be some placebo affect going on - but regardless everyone is so different that what works for one won't necessarily work for another.

When we are home I try to cook healthy meals - but we still go out and eat fast food once in awhile...

Healthy Eating

I think you have to have balance. So many people go to extremes when it comes to food and eating healthy. They go over board in one area and ingore others. We need balance. This is the main problem I have had in reading healthy living type books. There seems to be no balance. Especially when dealing with medical and food things. They find one area or thing they like or agree with and ignore all other facts. I think this applies to the raw diet thing. Yes, raw foods are healthy but not eating all/only raw foods. Lots of raw foods mixed in with other foods is more realistic of what we need.

Obssession over self is never a good thing...

I think the article was careful to be about obsessiveness, not about healthy eating. And being obsessed with ourselves on any subject is never healthy (food, shoes, hoarding, etc etc). I think TaftMommy had a good point: fear is not a good reason to do things. And if we examine the effects of fear in our lives, I daresay it is literally as damaging as poor diet... I know a couple individuals that developed health problems directly because of fear.

We try to eat healthy, but I didn't take offense at his article because I know exactly what he's talking about! I've encountered some individuals who refused to eat anything they were unsure of, even if it meant offending other people. Like a girl we had over (to teach her how to sew) and she watched us eat lunch. She wouldn't touch the plate of fruits & vegetables we put out specially for her, because it wasn't organic. I doubt any residual toxins would have stressed her body as much as starving herself of a meal or two... Or the discomfort she caused us by being rude... :)

We eat to live, not live to eat.

elizabeth

http://lizzykristine.blogspot.com

We are not perfect... but I like to eat with the seasons...

I try to eat with the seasons... I think nature has made it that way. Have you ever eaten corn on the cob in January????It is just nasty... Corn on the cob is supposed to be eaten in the summer. But we have become a people of, "I want what I want when I want it". So there is corn on the cob in the supermarkets in January.
I don't think our bodies are set up that way... and every thing is portion control.

Sue

Healthy Eating

We try to eat healthy at home. I don't normally buy white flour, but on occasion for a special recipe, we will purchase a small bag of white flour.

I tried using only sucanat/rapadura or honey for sweeteners, but my children really complained about the baking difference and taste difference. So, while I stress using honey as much as possible, I do buy organic white sugar at Costco (cheapest place I can find to purchase it). We still use too much of it, but we are slowly working our way out of even the organic white sugar.

We make as much of our own bread as the schedule allows. When time constraints insist, I do buy stone ground whole wheat bread w/o high fructose corn syrup.

We do eat out when we are in town for an entire day, taking our own lunch but buying dinner out. These dinners will usually be Costco pizza or the dollar menu somewhere. These are not healthy, but they do fill the stomachs of many children when it's necessary.

I do not purchase anything with high fructose corn syrup or msg in it. There are the occasional treats that have the hfcs in them, but these are few and far between. I think if anyone had to start in making healthy choices, it would be to eliminate these two ingredients.

We try to eat healthy, but we are not "purists" but we do try to eat healthy at home.

Laralee
http://PlymouthRockRanch.com
Recording the Faithfulness and Provision of God for Future Generations

Kinda off topic...

Honestly, healthy eating is something that I struggle with, in a variety of ways.

First, I have to admit, that a lot of times a fast food burger, or a bag of chips, or a pint of ice cream just sounds good. I've switched to eating Weight Watchers ice cream bars, but I have to wonder, if I'm really do myself any favors. Sure, it's low in fat in calories, but those had to be replaced with something, likely some bizarre chemicals. Maybe I would be better off having a small amount of real ice cream?

Second, and this may be the biggest one, is time. I work full-time, and it's a real struggle some days to put a healthy meal on the table. It involves a lot of planning ahead a preparation the night(s) before. And while this certainly isn't all bad, it's still something I struggle with. In general, you can't come home at 5:30 and throw together something healthy.

Third, is cost. Often times, it IS cheaper to buy some pre-packaged, processed junk. Were I a SAHM, I think I could probably work to plan and prepare frugal, healthy meals, but at this time in my life, time is at a premium. At 9:00 at night, I'm thinking about bed, not preparing a menu and shopping list.

Interestingly, just the other night, as I was preparing something not-so-healthy, I was thinking, "I need to start using Tammy's recipes more often. Her's are always healthy!"

Balance and Seasons

For me and my family (DH, 2 yr. old, and one on the way) finding a balance has been often based on the season we are in. When I am pregnant, I don't have as much energy to spend preparing meals as healthy as they could be. I have come to realize that being at peace with what season I am in is equally important as what I am eating, because STRESSING about it can have just as many negative effects on my body and the well being of my family. When I have the time and energy, I try new recipes, soak my grains, and make cream of chicken soup from scratch (YUMM!). When I don't, I ask the Lord to bless my efforts with my Aldi's deals. :)

This is a good subject, Tammy - thank you for your site!

I think you can too...

for some people eat vegetarian or vegan and if you are very careful get enough of the right proteins.
I do not like meat that much, so we eat very little of it, we do eat it, but low amounts of it. We try to always have complete proteins though.
When I was pregnant with my second son I basically ate vegetarian and no milk as well. When he was 5 months old I broke my foot in a fall that should not have broken my foot. After 4 weeks, it was not healing still. The x-ray revealed a depleted bone. The foot doctor told me that the only time he sees this in a young person is if they are vegetarian, don't drink milk and eat green leafy vegetables. It does not happen all the time, but the ones that it does are that group of people.
It makes me more careful, although I still can go without meat much of the time, I try to be careful about getting the vitamins I need so I do not break bones.
My uncle is a very healthy vegetarian though and I know it is possible!

Shop Fresh, Eat Fresh, but Enjoy the Little Things

I don't buy into the Vegan, Vegetarian, or Raw diets - someone, none of the above seem particularly healthy to me.

I find that I always feel best after I've gotten my fruits and veggies, had enough fiber to keep me full, had enough protein to keep me energized, and had enough starches to handle the bad stuff.

To do this, I buy fresh fruits and veggies and actually eat them. So few adults actually eat the fresh fruit and veggies that they buy. I also choose basmati or some such instead of instant rice. I rarely eat potatoes, but when I do, I balance them with a green side.

It's all about the choices we make. I choose not to eat empty carbs, I choose to eat fruit instead of a toaster struedel in the morning, I choose to make my dinner instead of eat out. It's our choices that contribute to our health, not one diet or another. "Everything in moderation," as my grandmother used to say.

Healthy Eating

Our family has come a long way since my husband and I first got married and I knew next to nothing about cooking except what my mom and grandma cooked. Most of the time it was almost from-scratch, home-cooked meals with a lot of convenience and not-so-healthy foods thrown in. As we got older (we've been married 25 years) we noticed, after much research, that there was a better way to eat so that we would feel better. We eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables that are in season, lots of beans and rice, and not as much meat and dairy as we used to. I also bake with whole wheat and rye flour more than white and try to stay away from too much sugar. I know we could do better but we have decided that we would do the best we could with God provides for us. I also frequent the farmers' markets in season and freeze as much food as is possible. I just believe that the closer it is to the way God made it, the better it is for us, but at the same time, living within our means. Right now that rarely means buying organically unless we can grow it ourselves. I agree with Elizabeth, above, that when we are given the privilege of being in someone else's home, we should be as gracious as possible about what we are served. Everybody is different about what they like to eat and it is just one meal.

Tammy, I love your site. You've taught me so much about how to eat in a balanced way. God bless.

DarcyLee
http://in-this-season.blogspot.com

Healthy Eating

Hi Tammy,
I just made a post on my blog about this. www.elizabethsimplejourney.blogspot.com. We just went through hurricane Ike. Before Ike we ate only clean foods. During the past 2 weeks we have learn it more about balance than anything. There are times and seasons in our lives when we can't get clean food. I was so unprepared for the storm. It was very hard to feed my family because I was so unprepared. Key here is moderation.
Drop by when you have time and read my post.
Hugs,
Elizabeth

Eating Healthy

I grew up in a home where eating healthy was good. Alothough most foods were prepared and some were garden grown. we try not to eat fried foods. we eat baked. As for eating out when your working full time it is hard to come home and cook. We do eat out and sometimes fast food. I know that is not good for us. I'm working on changing it.

sandra

Interesting topic

I did not read the article for the sake of time, and a lot of what I think has already been posted by others, but I wanted to throw in my $0.02.

For our family, we want to simplify a lot of what we do in able to help others. We are on a really tight budget, so going organically would put a strain on us. It does not make sense to work more to buy "better" foods. You may live longer, but you will never see your family! Also, when my husband is done with school, we hope to give even more of our money to the church, but going organically would gobble up that money, especially if our family size increases (Lord willing!).

I would have to admit that there are some people that I would feel uncomfortable inviting over for dinner since we can't afford the "best" meals, or organic foods. They, of course, may not be offended...

I've been there. When I was

I've been there. When I was thought to have celiac disease I was so worried about getting one drop of gluten in my system for fear of getting sick that I didn't eat many meals because I wasn't sure yet what I could have. I got pretty sick and dropped the little weight on my frame that I had and could not afford to lose. The worse my health got the more and more I avoided "bad" foods thinking they were causing it. I LOVE food and would have never thought I would be linked with a disease like anorexia since I don't have a body image problem and want to GAIN weight; however, my anxiety for my health had gotten out of control. This was also during a time that I was having cysts tested to see if they were cancerous and I came across the "raw food diet" and the many testimonies that they would reverse or greatly help cancer. So I stocked the fridge with fruits and veggies but that was all I would eat since I was avoiding breads for gluten and meats for the hormones that might promote cancer growth. At one point, I was only eating fruits, veggies, rice, beans, and nuts and was down to 93 pounds. That was two years ago and eventually our finances required that I stop spending so much on tons of organic fruits, vegetables, raw nuts, etc. and my husband was tired of me eating like a rabbit so I started cooking everything from scratch and really educating myself on how to cook nutritious meals without gluten and that don't have high hormone content as I still am prone to fibroids, though praise the Lord, they aren't cancerous. I weight is back up to where it was before at around 105 which is my normal for my 5 foot petite frame but I would love to gain some more. Just wanted to add my story since I have been there and it does happen and the fear of "SAD" (Standard American diet) foods and their effects on the human body can get out of control.

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