There's just so much to learn, and a number of topics have been on my mind lately.
I've been doing more learning than teaching, as evidenced by the size of my browser's history folder and the lack of substantial posts here in my blog.
So instead of trying (at 1:00am!) to come up with a blog post worthy of your time, I thought I'd share a little of what's been on my mind.
• Dental care. My trip to the dentist last month was a good dose of reality: I knew next to nothing about good dental care. I've spent hours reading online, and also found The Oral Health Bible at our local library.
I'm really only scratching the surface so far, but I'm excited about incorporating some things that support good dental health! Joshua had been telling me for years about a product called a Waterpik but it wasn't until I started doing my own research that I realized how useful that little tool could be. We ordered one from Amazon.com
and it arrived a few weeks ago. (There was actually a sale on that one when we ordered, so we paid $41. There are other brands of oral irrigators out there, but we felt from our research that the Waterpik was a good quality for the price.)
The Waterpik has been such a blessing! It doesn't replace brushing or flossing, but rather cleans below the gumline, where brushing and flossing fall short. Right now, since I still have a cavity that catches food (still no decision regarding the dental work recommended by our dentist) the Waterpik is wonderful for completely cleaning that difficult area.
•Grain mills. Anyone out there use a hand mill for all or the majority of their flour? If so, I'd love to hear your recommendations! I'm having a difficult time deciding between an electric micronizer/impact mill (like the Nutrimill) and a hand-operated mill.
•CPS news stories from Texas. I'm really bothered by the "guilty until proven innocent" approach here.
Since when did looking young give CPS the right to take someone's children? I look young. We've had first-hand experience with someone anonymously "being concerned" that I was too young to be married and having children. Whoever it was, called the local police department and reported that my husband was married to a 14-year-old. (I was 24 at the time.)
We might not agree with someone's religion, but taking children when no abuse has been proven -- that's not right (video from MSNBC).
The Common Room is a good blog for finding the latest news links related to the FLDS cases. Feel free to take your comments over there, since I know it's rather off-topic here. :)
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looking young
Tammy, hello again. I too agree with you about this story in Texas - there's injustice written all over it. I in no way, agree with their church's doctrine, but these are real families, not just some numbers and ficticious story characters. Hearing about this in Ghana, reminds me of a very corrupt government like here, where money talks. I guess it happens everywhere in the world.
I don't have the experience you did about someone calling the police, but I do have a friend who did. We are the same age.
In her case, she was a school bus driver. Someone called her in on their cell phone thinking that she was a young driver on a joy ride with children in the bus. The police came (without sirens) and pulled up along side her on the highway, so as not to alarm the children, I guess. Anyway, they saw her and knowing who she was, just waved at her and let her go about her business. I think people just think it's up to them to "report" these "youth" when there really is no cause to worry.
I am short and said to be young looking (although since I have some graying hairs, not quite so much anymore - LOL) and with a higher pitched voice, people calling on the phone don't know that I am in my mid thirties. I have had people ask me for my mother when I answer the phone. It's kind of fun to come up with the next line, which I've said, "well, she lives in another state, but you could call her if you like!" LOL
Have a great day. Today's my birthday! =)I'm 36 years young!
Shalom,
Loretta at: http://veganfootprints.blogspot.com/
Happy birthday! :) I just
Happy birthday! :) I just recently found your blog (via my kitchen tips links). ;)
I had forgotten about the funny looks I've gotten when I answer the door. :) It's been a couple years now, but I can remember people stopping to sell things and asking if my mom was here... ;)
yes, and...
...my being only 5 feet tall doesn't help either. My soon to be 10 year old son is within 6 inches of passing me up and is only one shoe size smaller than mine! LOL - I guess my husband being 6 foot 2 inches probably helped that along, huh? Add that (on a good day) I weigh a little over half of what my husband weighs (he's not fat either) and you get the picture...LOL!
Thanks for checking out my blog. I hardly had power or internet access, since last Thursday, for posting a kitchen tip this Tuesday (Welcome to West Africa!...LOL). I'll have one next week, thanks to being able to scheduling posts ahead of time.
Loretta at: http://veganfootprints.blogspot.com/
well
You look young, but not THAT young.
People are weird.
I also feel for these
I also feel for these families. I don't agree with the teachings of this group, but no abuse has been proven. I think that it's a scary implication that CPS came in and took all those children for what amounts to a religious reason.
TEETH
TAMMY,
I know you read alot and research alot -- so I was just wondering.....
Have you read anything about rebuilding your teeth with nutrition? Here's a blog link that I found some time back:
http://womanlypursuits.blogspot.com/2008/02/curing-cavities-with-nutrition.html
...and a product called --uhmm--Xylitol, I think. ? That product is some sort of sugar, said to have some kind of anti-bacterial properties and I read testimonies of some saying teeth were remineralized in children?!
If you have, I would LOVE to hear about it!
God bless!
-Donna-
Hand-operated grain mill
When we first started griding our own grain we had the Family Grain Mill. It made nice flour-not quite as fine as our electric mill but it was good enough for us. But it was SOOO labor-intensive. It took about 5 minutes to grind one cup of grain. Now I knew it would be some work but I'm not afraid of hard work and I have 2 big boys so I really didn't figure on it being a big deal. The kiddos loved it! They'd all just about fight over who's turn was next. But there is no way I could be making bread for our family of 8 on a regular basis with just that mill. Well, of course I could-but with our busy household it was very difficult to keep bread for our 5 family members at that time. I still have it and we get it out for the kids to grind some stuff for me sometimes(they still love it) but I am grateful every time I use my Nutrimill. It is truly, truly a blessing.
Because of Him,
Tracy in NC
Grain Mill
The Nutri Mill is wonderful. And of course it is fast! It is always a balance between saving time and saving money. I do alot of my cooking from scratch, help my husband with his business, very involved in our church and I homeschool, so fast means more to me.
In Him,
Lisa Q.
Grain mills
Hi Tammy,
We originally bought a hand-operated grain mill because we didn't want to spend so much money on the equipment to make fresh bread. That lasted about 3 weeks. My husband and I would take turns, and even the girls took their turns cranking the mill. It took a really long time, unless you went really fast and then I was too exhausted to make the bread. My husband like the bread so much that he agreed to buy the electric mill and a Bosch machine. That was six years ago and I still use it weekly. We make 5 loaves at a time, as well as pizza dough and cinnamon rolls. It was money well spent.
Thanks for all the recipes, I have tried many and always enjoy seeing what you have next.
~Robin
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/robinseggblue/
TOO YOUNG
You have never looked your age, but have always acted so mature for it. I remember the first time we sat and talked at your grandparents's house. When they said you were 13 I just kept saying, "No she's not." You just didn't act that young. I told Don when your police officer thing happened that I thought maybe someone mistaken you for your sister and heard her say her age. You both look alike and people are always mistaking you. But they could tell by the way you look that you look young for your age and some of that is because of the way you dress - no make up, no skirt as high as you can get - lol. Some people just see you as different instead of the religion behind it. If they saw an Amish person they would think nothing of it and just turn the other way. But just because you are in a little town they view things different. I have had people ask me about you guys for years. I think nothing of it anymore. You do look too young to have 3 children and Joshua looks so much older because of the beard. My cousin had the same trouble - when he shaved, he got carded. Before that they would try to serve him at 14!!!!! I felt sorry for the officer that probably felt like an idot for asking someone at 24 about her age. He probably knew as soon as he meet you, but had to do his job. I know people on the force and it is not all that great at times. They both said that being the guy with the badge is not always the best place to be. They need to do things they know are ok already, but because someone made a call they need to check it out no matter what they think. They know that some of it is because people see someone as "Not normal". It is just like someone that wears all black and white or a bunch of earrings, etc. Some people would not like them because they are different and not get to know the person. They do have feels too.
too young, try too thought of being too old
I would love for someone to think that I am younger than I am! I have always been thought of as older. Just the other day someone here at work thought I was this other lady that works here... This woman is 60 and has a 28 year old daughter that works with me also and they thought I was her mother. I am only 38!!!!!!!!
I have alot of grey hair. But even when I was a teenager I was thought of being in my 20's. I never got carded when going to dinner.
My daughters are now having the same problem because they are very tall for their age. They are both in the 95% on height. My 2 1/2 year old is about a 1/2 inch shorter than friends of ours son and he is 4 and average height!
The problem with being tall or thought of as older, people expect my children to act older then they are.
This year I was very happy that in my older daughter's pre-school class there is another girl taller than my daughter. Finally! (This girls parents are 6'5" and 6'0".)
Sue
I agree about the FLDS.
I agree about the FLDS. Basically, 400 children were taken from their parents because of where their parents went to church.
There were not even allegations of abuse, they were just summarily taken away. I thought I was the *only* one who saw a huge violation of parental rights. Everyone is stuck on the town's theology, however mistaken, and the teenage girls. But why take a nursling boy away from his Mama because the preacher is marrying off 15 yo girls?
And, I don't look so young anymore, but I SOUND young. It's so annoying to answer the phone and be asked if my mother is home!
Good topics :)
I'm excited to see what you come up with ala tooth care. It's something I've been interested in lately. :)
I feel the same way about the FLDS kids. I blogged about it a bit on livejournal, and I plan to blog about it on blogspot, I'm just trying to come up with a way to do it graciously. :P
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http://lilirishlass.blogspot.com
xylitol and flds
Xylitol is in Trident gum. I have heard it helps fight ear infections also, weird. If you go to the Common Room today there is good news about the flds case. It looks like there will be a little more common sense going on.
FLDS
I agree with you and the other commenters about the FLDS church members. I also do not in any way believe what they believe - my religion, like many others, teaches that polygamy is sinful. However, what I see in this situation is people being persecuted (and prosecuted) for unpopular religious beliefs and practices.
And all the news media can talk about is their clothing and hair. Personally, I think they look kind of nice! And while I'm all for throwing the book at people who abuse children, I am not convinced that that's what's happening on their compound.
Well, if we're gonna start hauling people in for unpopular religious practices, then we ALL better watch out. After all, mainstream society does not in any way promote or support a Christian lifestyle.
FLDS & dental care
I have struggled with this FLDS vs. CPS situation since it began. I'm sure that there are bad things happening there. I know many people don't agree with me, but I think the living situation breeds some bad things. (Remember five grown women chose to go to a safe house instead of back home. hmm) Having said this I must say, I do not agree with the removal of all of the children, while I think bad things are happening I do not believe that it's universal there. If CPS used this same tatic everywhere then if any parents in your town are under investigation you should kiss your children goodbye too, all because you live on the same block. So that's where I am, still strugling. (I can say that it doesn't look good in the near future for any religous couple with children!)
Now on to dental
Tammy I'd love to see some posts about what you're learning about dental care. I'm afraid I don't know much and you have a nack for making advice fit into everyday life. Thanks!!
This Texas Thing...
has been on my mind and heart since this happened. I posted my thoughts on this at my blog a couple of weeks ago-
http://northernkids2.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-am-going-to-get-on-my-soapbox-for.html
What I find most disturbing at this point is...to my knowledge, not one person with this group has been charged with anything that validates the removal of all these children. My heart just breaks for these poor kids, who have been terriorized by their removal from their mothers. While I completely disagree w/ polygamy, I think the state of Texas has way over stepped their bounds. Being a homeschooling family, I am always wary of CPS and their power.
Waterpik multi use...
The waterpiks are also very good for removing wax from ears also! We have some dairy issues in our family that cause congestion in some of the children's ears. You can have the wax removed with "chemical" solutions and alcohol from the store or go to the doctor and have them remove it, but the waterpik does the same thing safely (just remember to turn it on low to medium and use at an angle towards the wall of the canal). We have an MD and Naturalpath doctor and both recommend using this at home. It works great (especially when used before ear-candling)!
Grain mill
I really recommend getting an electric hand mill... at least until your boys are MUCH bigger!! :)Our friends have a "top of the line" hand mill and it takes their boys (ages 19, 17, and 14) over an hour to mill enough flour for a batch of bread (6 loaves) and its VERY hard work!!
ear candling
Does ear candling really work?
From what I understand, the
From what I understand, the "wax" that appears to be removed during ear candling is mostly just the wax coating melting off the ear candles themselves. I haven't had it done, but my mother has, by a friend of hers who believes in it. My mom was not convinced. :p
Ear Candling
I,in desperation, used an ear candle one weekend when I developed an ear infection. Little, if any wax was removed from my ear and it did nothing for my infection.
Lisa Q
mostly on grain mills :)
We used a hand mill for a while with a family of four. It was a Diamant (one of the best available, and expensive!). We have the standard burrs for it, and they grind more coarsely than storebought flours, but the flour still produces fine bread. There are other burrs available for really powdery fine flour, but we never bought those.
I would never go back to grinding my own by hand if I had a choice because it is just too much hard work, and takes too much time. The only way I would consider it is if we hooked it up to a bicycle (which is possible with a Diamant, and some other models). Then that might be fun. I am sure the kids would volunteer, and we'd all get some exercise, too. The only drawback to hooking it up to a bike is that you will have to take the time to set it up, and you will need a dedicated indoor space for it (no small contraption!). An inclosed porch would be great. Even with a bike, though, you'll be giving a significant amount of time to grinding wheat, especially if your family gets large.
So we use a Nutrimill -it's a smaller investment, it's faster and much less work. The only time we get out the Diamant is to occasionally crack wheat for cereal. The Nutrimill really does NOT grind coarsely enough to work for cereal.
That's our experience :)
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